Your mother called it 'settling.' Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young said “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with.” Let's face it, not everyone can have their perfect mate so you have to make do.

Yet in the animal kingdom, females and males apparently have ways to compensate that increase the chance their offspring will survive even if the parents are not genetic ideals.

Patricia Adair Gowaty calls it the "Compensation Hypothesis."

“It’s always better for offspring if parents can mate with preferred partners, but it’s becoming clear that when parents can’t have that preferred partner, they have ways of making up for it,” said Gowaty, a Distinguished Research Professor of Ecology and Genetics at the University of Georgia and lead author of the study. “When female ‘choosers’ were in enforced pairs with males they did not prefer, they laid more eggs. Similarly, when males are paired with females they do not prefer, they ejaculate more sperm. This compensation seems to be a way of making the best of a bad job.”

Co-authors of the paper were Wyatt Anderson, Alumni Foundation Distinguished Professor of Genetics, and Yong-Kyu Kim, an assistant research scientist in Anderson’s lab, both at UGA; Cynthia K. Bluhm of the Delta Waterfowl and Wetlands Research Station in Canada; Lee C. Drickamer of Northern Arizona University; and Allen J. Moore of Centre for Ecology and Conservation at the University of Exeter in the United Kingdom.

One of the new study’s strongest arguments for the Compensation Hypothesis is that it includes experimental results in Tanzanian cockroaches, fruit flies, pipefish, wild mallards and feral house mice. When each species faced experimental constraints on free expression of their mate preferences, individuals found ways around the predicament that could improve the chances that offspring could survive and perhaps even flourish.

“Just how an individual finds its best mate isn’t really known,” said Gowaty, “though there’s some evidence that he or she may be somehow sensing the advantage of the potential mate’s immune system in relation to the chooser’s own.” She points out that many factors are probably at work, including behavioral cues and what potential resources a mate may bring.

While the strategies for dealing with nonpreferred mates can help offspring, advantages for the mating pairs themselves are less clear. In experimental situations, for example, females mated to non-preferred males didn’t live as long as females mated to their preferred choice.

One interesting aspect of the study is its implication that all individuals in a species have a flexible response to such problems as constraints on expression of their mating preferences. If that’s true, it hints that compensation may evolve—which could add an unexpected wrinkle to the story of natural selection.

“How compensation evolves is crucial,” Anderson said.

The issues at stake are, in fact, even broader.

“The study also has implications for conservation because it suggests that the best way to keep species alive may be, if possible, to let individuals choose their own mates,” said Gowaty.

- University of Georgia